Final night time, for the third Wednesday in a row, I ventured to the Whiteside Theater in downtown Corvallis to observe an outdated film. Two weeks in the past, it was Nationwide Lampoon’s Christmas Trip. Final week, it was It is a Fantastic Life. And yesterday was Star Wars. The place was packed! So enjoyable to observe a favourite movie in an outdated theater with a few hundred different followers.
I’ve additionally been watching many motion pictures at house currently. I lastly have the time. In accordance with Letterboxd, I’ve seen seventeen movies in December. I watched 9 in November. I take pleasure in exploring the nooks and crannies of cinema. (I extremely advocate Letterboxd, by the best way. I have been utilizing it to log my movie watching for 2 years, and I can not think about not utilizing it.)
My days have been busy, too.
Within the mornings, as all the time, I stroll the canine. Recently, although, we have been taking longer walks: 90 minutes, two hours. A part of it’s because I’ve embarked upon a loopy mission to map each Little Free Library and farmstand on the town [my map]. However a bigger half is as a result of I’m, eventually, prioritizing health once more.
A few of it’s possible you’ll recall that I misplaced forty kilos throughout COVID. I used to be pleased with my health going into 2021, however then I acquired sidetracked by promoting a home, shopping for a home, and a really shitty 2022. I fell into my dangerous behavior of stress consuming. I did not do any train. I gained fifty kilos — all the things I would misplaced in 2020 and extra. Properly, for the previous three weeks I have been each exercising and consuming proper. I am again on the gymnasium. In January, I am becoming a member of some mates for a 30-day yoga problem.
To make it simpler to make wholesome decisions with meals, I’ve slowly been re-vamping our kitchen. We have lived on this home for fifteen months now, so now we have a greater thought of the place totally different kitchen instruments ought to dwell. Plus, after greater than a decade with Kim, I’ve determined it is time to ditch a few of our outdated kitchen stuff (a few of which we have owned because the Nineties!) and improve to raised instruments. I now personal three good knives, they usually’re a pleasure to make use of.
In the meantime, after eighteen months of speaking about artwork, I’ve begun to dabble in it. Not a lot, however some. Earlier this month, I began a every day artwork journal. I am taking part in with pens and drawing types. I purchased an inexpensive watercolor set and am having enjoyable taking part in with that. Once I’m not watching motion pictures, I am usually watching artwork instruction on YouTube.
Plus, I am doing different enjoyable stuff. I am studying books and comics. I am spending extra time with mates — each on Zoom and in Actual Life.
In brief, December has been my greatest month in a very long time. I’ve been main a values-driven life and it reveals. I can really feel it. The individuals round me can really feel it to.
However discover what’s not on that checklist. What am I not doing? Writing about cash. Since my mom died in early October, I have been on a deliberate three-month sabbatical. It is clear that I wanted it. It is also clear that I most likely want extra time to myself. Like all of 2023.
I discussed earlier this month that I need to make 2023 the 12 months of J.D. And it is true. That is precisely what I will do. I will prioritize doing what I need once I need it. I do not imply this in some hedonistic means. I imply it in a “pursuing that which fulfills me” means. Does that make sense?
My primary precedence for the approaching yr is to give attention to health. Kim and I are doing this collectively for the primary time since we met at Crossfit, and it feels superior to be on the identical web page. It is a lot simpler to do that as a staff. Together with train and well being consuming, I am additionally addressing some lingering well being points: blood strain, sleep apnea, and many others.
My quantity two precedence for 2023 is to proceed constructing (and re-building) friendships right here in Corvallis. Though I determine as an introvert, it is clear that I am not. I want social interplay, and I have not been getting sufficient of it. I am engaged on it.
My third precedence for the subsequent twelve months is to dive into artwork. I’ve struggled to begin for a few causes.
- First, I do not know the place to begin. I am a whole novice. I’ve by no means carried out something inventive in my life. (Properly, not totally true. In junior excessive, a buddy and I used to attract our personal comedian books, however that was child stuff.)
- Second, I do not know what sort of artwork to pursue. Do I need to draw? Do I need to paint? One thing else totally?
This month, I’ve stopped excited about these kinds of questions and as a substitute begun doing no matter I need with pens and paint. The one means to determine the place to go is to attempt issues. Plus, I am taking note of what excites me. Comics excite me, clearly, and all the time have. However I am additionally realizing that I like what I would name “mid-century spot illustration” fashion: heavy brush strokes, form of cartoony.
A closing precedence is to resolve which tasks to pursue round the home. Kim and I moved right here on the finish of August 2021. We love Corvallis, and we all know that is the place we need to dwell. Our home is completely tremendous, however…it is not good. (No home ever is.) After “losing” $150,000+ making modifications to our final home then shifting after 4 years, I am extra cautious right here. If we keep, I am keen to spend cash and energy to enhance issues. But when we do not, I do not need to expend the sources.
So, Kim and I have to decide: Will we decide to staying at this place for, say, a decade or so? Or can we agree that it is solely a brief place? If we are going to remain, then I’ve a few tasks I need to sort out virtually instantly. I need rework a toilet — possibly two. And I need to give the again yard a serious overhaul. (The “bones” of the yard are strong, however the area is overgrown with ferns and weeds after practically a decade of neglect.)
So, these are my plans for 2023. Once more, discover how Get Wealthy Slowly is just not on this checklist.
I can’t resolve what to do about Get Wealthy Slowly. What function does it play in my life? Does it play a task in my life?
That is half of a bigger query about what function I need the web (and computer systems themselves, actually) to play in my life. Over the previous few years, it is develop into clear that for me (as with many others, I do know) the web supplies simply as many issues because it does options. And, in reality, I think that my latest struggles with psychological well being have been exacerbated by the web. Maybe even brought about by the web.
One choice is to easily minimize the twine utterly and stroll away. Promote the location. Surrender writing about cash endlessly. Think about it a part of my life and transfer on. There are a number of upsides to this alternative, I will admit. However I am not satisfied it is the most suitable choice. What if I find yourself regretting the choice? What if I do resolve I need a spot to speak about cash once more?
Apart from, there are two huge causes I need to preserve Get Wealthy Slowly (or, maybe, Cash Boss in its stead). For one, I actually do need to create an internet encyclopedia of non-public finance, a spot uncluttered by advertisements and analytics and bullshit, a spot the place individuals can get dependable, unbiased cash data. Second, and maybe extra importantly, I am a author. I specific myself by way of phrases. I take pleasure in having an outlet to share what I am feeling. Identical to this!
So, I equivocate.
I commute.
I believe and I believe and I take into consideration the perfect course to take.
However you understand what? It is not a choice I’ve to make proper now. Proper now, the perfect factor is to easily do what I have been doing. It appears to be working. December has been all about me and my wants, and that is what 2023 might be too.
Within the coming yr, I will give attention to health. I will proceed exploring artwork and watching motion pictures. I am going to hang around with mates. In the end, I will journey once more. (I have already got plans to go to Colorado, Mexico, Greece, Ecuador, and extra!) I will spend time with Kim and our beasts. I will learn. I will prepare dinner.
And infrequently — for now, at the least — I will drop by Get Wealthy Slowly to share what I have been pondering and doing.
Joyful holidays, everybody. I will see you subsequent yr.
